Sunday, June 14, 2009

Texting the Teen

Less than 24 hours after she moved in:

How is court going?
Who is this?
Yo new Mama LOL it's MyRealName.
Oh haha its goin good i guess lol idk

The next day:
We r still at home but u can hang out with BestFriend if u want. B careful and keep in touch so I know where u are.
Okay thanks

going to eat with BestFriends parents and grandparents
Ok, b home by 10 and b safe

can i stay the night with BestFriend
no

Saturday, June 6th
we just got done shopping. didnt get anything tho :( [read: poor pitiful me, i'm in foster care so feel sorry for me and give me loads of money so i can shop every day and buy anything i want because i've already blown both gift cards you gave me two days ago for my birthday plus the $60 someone else gave me and by the way why can't i drive that car that just sits in the driveway and nobody drives] now we are on our way to AnotherBoy's game

Sunday, June 7th
*made her stay home all day because she had yet to eat a meal with us and she needed to unpack her things*

Monday, June 8th:
What's ur location??
Swimmin at BestFriends

Hours later @ 9:30pm, curfew at 10pm:
Can i be home thirty minutes later tonight :)
no, 10pm is curfew
Alrighty

Tuesday, June 9th (on official date with BoyFriend)
It was a box turtle laying eggs in the driveway
oh lol

Wednesday, June 10th
Could i just stay the night with BestFriend tonight and she can just take me to them [them = senior pics the following day]
No

*pulled a stunt with the woman she used to live with and got grounded for 24 hours hence no texts between us on the 11th.*

June 12th
Me I care about you.
Her :) i care about you too

Two hours later:
Her: can i stay the night with BestFriend tonight, please?
Me: Tell me why u want to stay overnight
Her: Just to hangout lol. her curfew is 930 tonight so i promise its not to stay out later. and her mom has some cloths that she wants us to go through plus shoes and purses
Her: If i do get to stay we will prolly come back home and tumble some more
Me: Where r u now?
Her: BestFriends right now we are about to go to the movies
Me: Who all is going?
Her: Me and BestFriend and my BoyFriend
Me: No, u cant stay the night. If u wanted to go out with BoyFriend, then u should have asked that. If Best Friend picks u up then she should b the one who u r with and brings u home.
Her: I will be with her i would have ridden back with her to cause Boyfriend has to be home early as well i promise BestFriend has to be home at 930 and no guys can come over past that time either. so we were just gonna watch a movie and then come straight back here and tumble in the basement for like 30 minutes

She was late coming home, brought here by BoyFriend not BestFriend, excuse was his vehicle was making funny noise maybe tearing up. They stood outside for 20 minutes talking. Rule is that in order to be counted as being home on time, you have to be inside the door. She knows this. Also she wasn't even with friend, went out to eat and to WalMart and supposedly to the movies yet couldn't remember what movie they watched. And the real kicker, the BoyFriend was staying overnight with his friend that lives only two houses down from the BestFriend, so that's the real reason she wanted to stay the night. I'm guessing she was planning on staying the night with the BoyFriend and not so much the BestFriend. She stayed home the next day but still had the gall to ask, at 8pm, to go out with some other boy I have yet to meet. Of course I said no but also let her know that she was being disrespectful. She wants to go live with her BestFriend and her parents, they love and want her. I said that I love and want her, she cried. Gotta try harder to push me away little girl, this ain't my first rodeo.

2 comments:

roztime said...

go you :D

D said...

YOu are a brave woman. I wouldn't touch that one....trouble